Comments on: Bi the Way – About

By: Christy

Christy — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 02:39:01 +0000

I am a bii woman but appreciate the thoughtful website. I don’t really agree with posts saying that female bisexuality is accepted. If you say you are a bi women the response is often “cool opportunity for a threesome.” Although we may not be bashed in the way bi men are we are often not respected as a serious potential relationship partner. Thanks for the great site.

By: Sam

Sam — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 04:58:04 +0000

I just found your blog and I have to say thank you so much for doing this. I have recently come out as bisexual and run into a lot of the problems you describe on this blog. It feels good to read about someone else who has gone through this too.
Thanks!

By: bitheway

bitheway — Fri, 29 May 2009 10:17:33 +0000

Hi Gwen

Yes I’m still around. Just not had time to write anything. Also suffering from RSI so computer time is limited.

By: Gwen

Gwen — Fri, 29 May 2009 10:16:08 +0000

I was rather interested in this blog and I’m sad to see you haven’t posted anything since April. You are still around though aren’t you?

By: me

me — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 21:37:10 +0000

i agree with you melene, i come from an all boys school, so its kinda normal to be bi and most people (bar chavs) embrace it. also, sometimes i have days when im way more attracted to 1 sex than the other……is that normal?

By: Meleny

Meleny — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 05:00:17 +0000

It’s incredibly tough being hung up on sexuality in this culture (especially the US, with all of our Puritan and prude roots).

Loving who you love, finding someone stunning and amazing, is one of the most wonderful feelings in the universe…regardless of sex. When one is left in awe of someone else and wishes to be intimately close to them and share themself fully, what is so wrong about that. It’s a human experience, something very unique and incredibly special.

There are far too many labels and meanings created around mutual attraction of the same sex. It’s human, we have it happen (most of us anyway – whether we admit it or not), and it’s ridiculous that there are so many incredible social taboos about people loving each other.

We are ok with watching violent movies, and seeing bloodshed, but we can’t accept that two people love each other who happen to be of the same sex. WTF!!!!???

By: gerard

gerard — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 10:21:57 +0000

hi, i like your web site…
19 yo bi guy from Holland…
take care!

By: Collin

Collin — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 04:37:59 +0000

I found this page while using Stumble, and I was so glad for it. I like to see that we have a community in the making; what you’re doing is key to advancing our lifestyle. The day I came out as bi felt so amazing and finding this site just reinforced the joy I found in this revelation about myself. Keep up the good work

By: Petra

Petra — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 19:11:04 +0000

Hi, I wondered if you’d be interested in a link exchange? I am a big fan of your blog who find it very interesting to see how male bisexuality works – from the other side so to speak.

Petra

By: MIKE GREEN

MIKE GREEN — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 23:46:55 +0000

I am 59 years of age and ‘ came -out’ to my lovely wife that I am Bisexual about 8 years ago. I have been happily married for 35 years, but recognised over time that I was attracted to men as well. My wife has been great in accepting me for who I am, but said that she does not know how she would have reacted if I had told her earlier on in our marriage. I was saddened to read Willies comment posted in January and the pain he is going through. You are not alone Willie and there are alot more of us married guys out there, who fit into a similar category. Accepting who we are and having others accept us is often the difficulty in our society. I found this site by Google too. A great find. Thankyou.

By: AllieNekoBiChick

AllieNekoBiChick — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 18:15:51 +0000

hey um im bisexual but im a female but anyway i was hoping u could lend advice or something…. i learned i was bisexual when i was 16 although i think i knew it subconsciously since i discovered sex and started noticing changes years before…. all my friends know…. all my close ones anyway… but i have a catholic family and im still afraid to tell them even though i am now 21…. i once had a fight with my mom and blurted out “IM BISEXUAL!” her response was that she doesnt believe in bisexuality…. im not sure whether she believed me or not >.< my dad takes everything out of proportion, my 2 sisters hate anything different i mean they hate that i like to wear black and they hate that im goth and have goth friends, my mom once told me before my outburst that in addition to not believing in bisexuality that she believes it is an excuse to be greedy (heard that one quite a few times since then *sigh*) and the rest of my family are big church-goers particularly my traditional grandma….
do u have any advice as to how i can come out to my family? and i mean all of them… i want to be able to cry on my mom’s shoulder when a breakup with a girlfriend goes bad and not just for the guy breakups =/

By: wesley

wesley — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 05:14:12 +0000

I had a Helen Keller water moment when I realized bisexuality was a valid state of being. I then quickly realized bisexual and gay are simply not the same thing when I found myself sitting on a rooftop deck in Chicago surrounded by gay men and cocktails, thoroughly not enjoying myself . I thought there must be something wrong with me, I just don’t fit in anywhere. It’s a major issue for many of us because bisexuality actually is more about individuality and being comfortable with yourself and there really is no real community. Maybe sites like this can change that. Either way it’s nice to know that I’m not the only 29 year old male bisexual oddball in this world.

By: willie

willie — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 06:52:21 +0000

Thank you so much for setting up this site, Bi the Way! I’m a 48-year old South African bi guy who are going through a painful divorce because I’m bi. I’ve felt alone, I’ve felt like a freak and I’ve felt completely worthless. And then I googled “Explain Bisexuality” and came across this site. It helps a lot to know I’m not alone…

By: Matt

Matt — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 09:58:16 +0000

I was thinking it’s time to take an active approach to my sexuality instead of waiting to be categorized by others. I’m 22 and have known I’m bisexual for a while.. now it’s just a matter of deciding how public to be about it! It’s easy to feel isolated when so few people talk openly about it. So it’s a great thing you’re doing! Thanks

By: Mike

Mike — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 23:24:14 +0000

Thanks so much for this blog…I’ve been looking for something like this since I came out bi about a month ago (no easy feat, being 19 and in college). Everyone I know has been really supportive of it, and my life hasn’t changed at all, but I now find myself much more interested in bisexuality, especially male bisexuality, and it’s great to see discussion of it anywhere. Thanks!

By: "KatieM2"

"KatieM2" — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 18:24:18 +0000

Hi…and thanks for your blog. It feels good to read about other men with the same feelings and difficulties and triumphs, so-to-speak. It is a lot to keep bottled up inside when there is no outlet to share…here is one.

“Katie”

By: bitheway

bitheway — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 17:58:52 +0000

Hi Seth

I certainly haven’t been “hiding”, in fact I think I’ve even included my real name on more than one post.

And my email address can be found on the Contributors page, and I’ve added it to the bottom of main content of this page too.

For the record, my email address for correspondence is editor[at]bitheway[dot]co[dot]uk.

I’m guessing everyone can follow how to decipher that. Apologies for not making it a clear direct link, but I’m trying to avoid having my email picked up by scrapers which scour web sites for email addresses to build spam lists.

By: seth

seth — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 17:49:48 +0000

There is not way to contact you except publicly. Great site, but that’s dumb. Why you hiding?

By: Francisco

Francisco — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 22:39:23 +0000

Hello! Woooow, I´m still shocked. I think this site is amazing, it´s good to know I´m not alone lol. I´m a 19-years-old, mexican guy. Maybe you don´t know but in Mexico it´s hard to find web sites about bisexuality. sometimes I´ve thought that bisexuality doesn´t exist. But right now, with your web site and with my feelings I believe bisexuality is there. You know, I consider myself as bisexual. Obviously my attraction to each gender isn´t 50 & 50. It´s kind of difficult to determine the grade of attraction but, I think you must already know about it.
Well, I want to congratulate you because of this page. Now you know you have a mexican reader. I´ll be waiting for the next post. Maybe someday we can chat, don´t you think? Might be interesting to talk with a bisexual man lol
Greetings from Mexico!

By: bitheway

bitheway — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:38:12 +0000

Thanks QueerUnity!

By: queerunity

queerunity — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:34:04 +0000

you are my blogspotlight and shout for the day

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