Apr 13 2008
Bi the Way - About
I’m male, 29, and I’m bisexual. Now that’s not how I’d normally introduce myself, because my sexuality is not the cornerstone of my self-identity. However, for the purposes of this blog its a fitting place to start, because this web site is about exploring male sexuality, in particular male bisexuality.
Bisexuality is a topic that remains largely taboo for a lot of men, despite the fact that there are millions of men out there who find themselves attracted to both men and women. There is a lot of pressure, particularly on young men to either identify themselves as straight or gay, and whilst peer pressure makes it hard to come out as gay, its even more difficult to come out as bisexual as there is no clear peer group where you can turn to support.
So I decided to write this blog for several reasons: The first is to explore my own sexuality. The second is to let others who are struggling with their sexual identity know that they are not alone and there are others out there like them. And finally to educate others and dispel a few myths about bisexuals and bisexuality.
There is a 4th supplemental reason and that is that I was curious to see how easy it was to set-up WordPress on a Windows platform, thanks to Nuclear Internet it was an absolute breeze.
Its also worth pointing out that this is a blog about sexuality not sex, so you won’t find the sordid details of my love life plastered across the world wide web or any sexually explicit images here. So please don’t ask. (Well OK - ask, I’ll be flattered, but you won’t get anything.) That said if you do have any suggestions for the site or questions you’d like to ask please post a comment, this is an interactive web site and your contributions are as important as my own.
Hope you enjoy the site.
Bi the Way
And thanks for setting this up! I just found this today, and agree with everything you say. Thanks for giving a teenage bisexual somewhere to turn too!
Hey Void - no problem, glad I could of being some help.
Take care buddy and keep reading, bisexuals do exist out there - we are just a bit invisible at times.
Great site. I came upon it via a google search for David Beckham bisexual. (which I never found any clarification on BTW).
Anyway there is a lot of good info here. I also am 29 and a bisexual male. A side of me I’ve only explored a few times but have taken more interest in lately.
I’m sort of hoping we’re coming into an age where male bisexuality and male sexuality in general become more mainstream. Female bisexuality is pretty well accepted in western society. But male bisexuality is still misunderstood and looked down on by both straight and gay guys and surprisingly many women. Even my own girlfriend who is a bisexual doesn’t understand or fully accept my bisexuality. To her, females being bisexual just seems more natural then men being bisexual. I disagree with her.
Today we walk into malls and see Victoria Secret stores catering to female sexuality. I’d love to see stores like this for males being more mainstream. Women talk about vibrators and they all have them, most guys seem awkward about male sex toys or anal play. I’d love to see male sexuality really open up. I mean why should the girls have all the fun?
Hi Michael
Thanks for you kind words.
“David Beckham Bisexual” Interesting search query - were you just hoping or do you have some insider information to share? LOL - no as far as I can tell Becks is 100% straight. I’m a little surprised the site came up under that Google search but its probably because of this page:
PS: I totally agree with your thoughts about male bisexuality, I think we are entering an age when its becoming much more acceptable. But it still turns heads.
you are my blogspotlight and shout for the day
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Thanks QueerUnity!
Hello! Woooow, I´m still shocked. I think this site is amazing, it´s good to know I´m not alone lol. I´m a 19-years-old, mexican guy. Maybe you don´t know but in Mexico it´s hard to find web sites about bisexuality. sometimes I´ve thought that bisexuality doesn´t exist. But right now, with your web site and with my feelings I believe bisexuality is there. You know, I consider myself as bisexual. Obviously my attraction to each gender isn´t 50 & 50. It´s kind of difficult to determine the grade of attraction but, I think you must already know about it.
Well, I want to congratulate you because of this page. Now you know you have a mexican reader. I´ll be waiting for the next post. Maybe someday we can chat, don´t you think? Might be interesting to talk with a bisexual man lol
Greetings from Mexico!