Comments on: 13 breeds of bisexual

By: my view askew « This Boy

my view askew « This Boy — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 23:25:41 +0000

[...] already read that there are give or take 13 different kinds of bisexuals out there. It makes sense if you believe that there's a large grey area for sexuality, [...]

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 04:34:11 +0000

Mostly lesbian but straight at times like right now!

By: Ali

Ali — Fri, 05 Aug 2011 05:13:37 +0000

After more thinking, could I be a Circumstantial bisexuals

I know I’m in a prison situation, but I thought I was in a situation of acting out being dominated by my girl friend and part of that was acting out being forced to suck and then being fucked

Could the domination cesion be circumstance?

By: lucy

lucy — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 02:03:09 +0000

I do not fit in any of the 13 either. I have only had long term relationships with men. My oppurtunities in meeting women for long term relationships are limited, so that could be why, I meet far more men than I do women. Although im not sure I would have realtionship with a women. I couldnt see myself spending the rest of my life with a girl. I havent ever had sex with a girl, but im by no means in the curious or exploritory as I know I like women and dont feel I need to have sex with one to prove it, and whne i meet someone I will I was in love with a women, nothing ever Happened. I have had experiences with women that could be classed as “hedonistic” or “recreational” or could fit in many other catogories. From about 17-19 I was more into girls. For the last 2 years its been primarily girls again. Normally when im single its girls. If im in a relationship in manogamous. I Fancy more famous men, then I do famous women and only fantasise about girls. Thats some where around bisexual I think lol iv realised that the label dont suit me , if people ask if im gay or straight i now say “im not straight” xx

By: bitheway

bitheway — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 20:27:22 +0000

Hi Sara

The comment was some-what tongue in cheek. Don’t take it to heart.

By: bitheway

bitheway — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 20:26:21 +0000

William. You are “sexual” that’s all there is to it.

By: Sara

Sara — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 18:41:57 +0000

I dont like how u said transitional is the only form of bisexuality that gays understand im a lesbian who used to be transitional that doesn’t mean that i think thats the only type. I totally understand that many people don’t fit into a certain category.

By: William

William — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 02:51:08 +0000

Please help me find my category; I find all sexy people sexy. I have lived all of my life hetero, however a sexy guy turns me on a lot more than an “un-sexy” woman. Also I am excited by both male and female genitalia. I love breasts and curves but I don’t get off too much on TVs. (well some times, if they look good). I am especially excited by pyschological porn or fantasies. Give me a strange or different scenario and I’m totally wound up. I like latex, leather, domination (m or f) cuckolding, first time, forced, anything to do with control or loss thereof. I love women, all shapes and sizes and especially loose women. I think I am just someone who loves sex. By the way, the idea of kissing a guy makes me lose my hardon. (unless he’s forced). So go ahead freuds, figure me out. Thanks..

By: Theoauseuropa

Theoauseuropa — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 15:35:34 +0000

I am the same as you are

By: BiByBirth?

BiByBirth? — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 07:18:24 +0000

Very interesting indeed, it’s taken me 34 years to finally accept my own form of bisexuality after trying (and failing) to identify as being straight and then coming out and trying to identify as being gay. Neither of these identities have ever fit so after all these years of confusion, turmoil, uncertainty and sometimes just plain downright bloody awful advice, I KNOW I am bisexual and I KNOW this is a valid sexual orientation and not just some free-floating No-Man’s Land on the way to being gay……….

Oh, and many thanks to the media for all the bullshit, negativity and misconceptions that is broadcast about us.

Heartfelt thanks to http://www.shybi-guys.com which I would recommend to anyone (there’s also a forum for bi-girls) who are tormented by sexual confusion, it’s an awesome site packed full of great advice and wise Moderators.

On the categories, closest from this category for me would be I suppose Hedonistic Bisexual but it’s fluid.

By: Charlie

Charlie — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 21:49:23 +0000

lol Great I am tridecasexual: bisexual in all 13 categories

By: Unigrl4

Unigrl4 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 23:19:43 +0000

I enjoy reading all the posts to things like this, it really truely helps me to realize… I DON’T NEED TO LABEL MYSELF

I go through random periods in my life where I enjoy sexual acts with men, but other than that I am a lesbian. I would choose an attractive girl over a guy any day. I have only been “in love” or even in relationships with women and really do not want to change that. I am a highly self analytical person; meaning I will analyze every part of my life till everyone around me including me wants to run screaming. Lately I have been more accepting of myself and trying to not be a gigantic ball of stress. This all connects with my deep desire to analyze and label myself as lesbian or bisexual. But now I am realizing that it really does not matter!!! I can just be me, because I am not anyone else and no matter how hard I try will never be anyone else. I do not need to fit into this perfect box of words that confines me to doing things a certain way, and if people ask me what I am I can explain my feelings, or just say I am human and I am me. People who disagree with my actions or choices because I don’t have a perfect label do not have to be around me I am not forcing them. I will go on for now enjoying me as I am: the great, smart woman who is slightly cynical but has huge goals, an even larger heart and an even larger desire to enjoy life (everything about it even the shitty moments)! I hope if you are in one of those self analytical confused times in your life, you can read this and just say screw it I am me and my decisions will reflect that; my choices will get me closer to my goals, and happiness will win!!!

By: DexX

DexX — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 06:26:18 +0000

I don’t fit ANY of those, in fact I don’t think I’m even close to any of them.

By: Lynne

Lynne — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 10:35:02 +0000

Dear Bitheway Administrators,

Could you elaborate on where to find more information on this ’13 Types of Bisexuality’ and J.R. Little. I tried googling for it, and couldn’t find appropriate links.

By: ben

ben — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 22:25:24 +0000

i am a circumstantial, conditional hedonistic bisexual, but i dont do love, just friendship & sex

By: POLL DANCING: Is bisexuality an experiment, a phase or an orientation? « Globosexuals.com

Tue, 03 Feb 2009 01:59:21 +0000

[...] find the actual dissertation, but several people have cited her in their work here, here and here. Below are the 13 different types of bisexuality identified by [...]

By: bitheway

bitheway — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 10:59:06 +0000

That’s a good video… the production is a bit dated in its style, but the message is exactly right.

Thanks for posting

By: Jonny

Jonny — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 09:08:50 +0000

Good article! I had thought bisexuals are born in that way. I also heard about the same from some professional sites. Maybe it depends on how to define it.

If you appreciate the beauty in both men and women, and find yourself attracted to the person regardless of their gender,then you are bi. Many hot and sexy bi singles & couples on ** BiLoves dotcom ** are looking to explore their bisexuality,coming out or enjoying their lives as bi here.

If you don’t know whether You Are Gay, Lesbian Or Bisexual,you may check http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDjtVS9iaDA. The psychotherapist Dominic Davies will tell you the answer.

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13 Types of Bisexuality..? - EvBoard - Evanescence Forum — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 11:58:14 +0000

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By: bitheway

bitheway — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 10:44:45 +0000

Hi Petra

Thanks for your kind remarks. I think that at the end of the day, the only boxes anyone fits neatly into are the ones they build around themselves. Self-identity and self-labelling are key.

That said, sometimes people are going to find that one of these “13 types” of bisexuality fit them rather neatly so I wouldn’t go as far as to throw the baby out with the bathwater, but equally I wouldn’t want anyone to feel they had to pick one of these definitions and then live up to it.

By: Petra

Petra — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 09:50:30 +0000

Thank you for an intelligent and well thought-out post on this subject! I was rather dismayed when one of my normally intelligent friends started quoting this as if it explained anything, and I’m quite glad to see I’m not the only one who thinks it’s a pile of shite.