Comments on: Winning over female friends http://www.bitheway.co.uk/2008/04/20/winning-over-female-friends/ An exploration of male bisexuality Wed, 07 Jan 2009 11:14:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Madame http://www.bitheway.co.uk/2008/04/20/winning-over-female-friends/#comment-8 Madame Wed, 23 Apr 2008 17:50:34 +0000 http://www.bitheway.co.uk/?p=12#comment-8 Just don't try too hard to make the effort. You go through life meeting new people every time and some might stick around for a while while others might drop like flies. The difference is the ones who'll stick with you after a certain period of time. They are the true friends and are worth gold (if not more). So keep your circle of valuable friends close and loose the dead weight. Just don’t try too hard to make the effort. You go through life meeting new people every time and some might stick around for a while while others might drop like flies. The difference is the ones who’ll stick with you after a certain period of time. They are the true friends and are worth gold (if not more). So keep your circle of valuable friends close and loose the dead weight.

]]> By: admin http://www.bitheway.co.uk/2008/04/20/winning-over-female-friends/#comment-7 admin Tue, 22 Apr 2008 22:53:21 +0000 http://www.bitheway.co.uk/?p=12#comment-7 Some people jump to the wrong conclusions when they learn something new about people. However, as in this case this is often because they haven't thought it through. The first reaction of my female friends was a complete lack of understanding: “I can’t imagine ever wanting to sleep with a member of the same sex” they'd say. OK so they can't imagine sleeping with a woman, fine, but that's precisely what they thought I wanted to do when they thought I was straight. So if you make them stop and thing about it, they'll realise they probably understand you better now they know you are bi, because we now share something new in common, we both want to sleep with men. That's got to be worth the effort. Some people jump to the wrong conclusions when they learn something new about people. However, as in this case this is often because they haven’t thought it through.

The first reaction of my female friends was a complete lack of understanding: “I can’t imagine ever wanting to sleep with a member of the same sex” they’d say. OK so they can’t imagine sleeping with a woman, fine, but that’s precisely what they thought I wanted to do when they thought I was straight.

So if you make them stop and thing about it, they’ll realise they probably understand you better now they know you are bi, because we now share something new in common, we both want to sleep with men.

That’s got to be worth the effort.

]]> By: Madame http://www.bitheway.co.uk/2008/04/20/winning-over-female-friends/#comment-6 Madame Tue, 22 Apr 2008 19:50:05 +0000 http://www.bitheway.co.uk/?p=12#comment-6 I don't think you have to win over anyone...if you have to, then they're not worth your friendship in the first place, so why bother? Besides, respect is far more important than trying hard to please other people. I don’t think you have to win over anyone…if you have to, then they’re not worth your friendship in the first place, so why bother?

Besides, respect is far more important than trying hard to please other people.

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